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Do any reading about intuitive eating, mindful eating or the non-diet approach and you are BOUND to come across this phrase:

Put weight loss on the back burner


It is so ingrained in the anti-diet movement and rolls off the tongue. But it made me think that just because it was one of those things everyone says, does everyone really understand what it means?

So, let’s unpack it!


The analogy

The statement “put weight loss on the back burner” is an analogy and it is helpful to visualise a literal stove top with burners. Here is one I prepared earlier!


Putting weight loss on the back burner is a common saying in the non-diet world. But what does it actually mean? This post explains it all.


Imagine that your work towards becoming an intuitive or mindful eater is the fry pan on the front burner cooking the pancake.

As you can see in the picture, you also have a cast iron pot sitting on the back burner of the stove.

In this analogy – your desire to lose weight is the cast iron pot. You are aware that it is there, but it is not what you are putting all your attention and effort into. You are focussed on watching for the bubbles to appear in the pancake so you know to flip it before it burns.

You are not being distracted by the pot in the background.

Or maybe thinking about it like a computer with a whole heap of tabs open on your screen makes more sense to you.

Putting weight loss on the back burner is a common saying in the non-diet world. But what does it actually mean? This post explains it all.

The pursuit of weight loss is one of those tabs.

But while you are working on becoming an intuitive eater, you have the ‘pursuit of weight loss’ tab minimised on the screen – it is still there, but it’s just not the tab you are working on or looking at.

Make sense?


Why put the pursuit of weight loss on the back burner?

When we continue to focus on weight loss as our main reason for doing intuitive or mindful eating, inevitably we turn our mindful eating and intuitive eating practice into the ‘hunger and fullness diet’. The hunger and fullness diet being where you are ONLY allowed to eat when you are hungry and you MUST stop eating when you are full. And any deviation from this means you are failing at it or doing it wrong.

As well as this being another diet (which we know don’t work), being wrapped up in wanting weight loss means we miss out on the opportunity to reconnect with our bodies internal wisdom and feel truly satisfied with food.

You basically miss out on all of the benefits of eating mindfully.


I don’t think I can give up the hope of losing weight

Being uncertain about giving up the hope of losing weight is perfectly normal. It is even perfectly normal if you are reading this and thinking that you are not sure if you even WANT to give up on the hope of losing weight.

We live in a culture that is very weight centric and prizes people that fit the thin ideal. It makes sense that the thought of giving up on losing weight seems difficult and scary.

But that is why the analogy of putting it on the back burner is so great – you are not being asked to forget about it. It is still there, like the pot – but just off to the side where it is not taking up all your attention

And if you keep thinking about the analogy; the idea with intuitive eating and putting weight loss on the back burner is that the more ‘pancakes you cook’ while you do intuitive eating work, the more you come to realise that you should take the cast iron pot (weight loss) off the stove and pack it away in the cupboard, because it is no longer needed and is just cramping your cooking space 🙂



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